Sasha, thank you for reading and sorry to hear about your friend break-up. God knows those are difficult and you’re never quite sure how to handle them. If I had my way, I’d simply ghost people too, but it lets them off the hook and they never know where they need to change. I think my fear boils down to “what if they hate me after?” Which tends to happen at times, but that’s more an issue with them than with me. That’s the hard part about growth—hard conversations.