Nicole, I’m sorry to hear you’re going through that and I agree that many men these days are just looking for a quick hook-up and flake on everything. That’s kinda the point of this article is that they’re going to be lonely, lonely men in the end who lived selfishly because they never knew the value of commitment. However, while many men act this way, it’s not all of them. I can only wish you the best in your future endeavors and hope that you meet a guy that has a personality and character above that of a common house cat. Best to you and thanks for reading!