It depends a lot on where you go Elliot. Obviously is you end up at AA or an SA meeting those will be for alcoholics and sex addicts, but a lot of churches and other places offer 12-Step based recovery for hang-ups. I went through one at the church I attend which is open to anyone struggling, whether they’re an atheist, Buddhist, or a Christian. My best friend ws how I learned about it when we went through for self-hate. His sponsor was a former cocaine addict and alcoholic, but the process is the same. My wife and I are both sponsors now and work heavily in the recovery community. I’d encourage you to look around and see if there’s one nearby and contact them!