🙌🙌🙌 Can’t recommend this one enough. Now this song from one of my favorite bands is obligatory:
Then two other things, Stella.
- Solid advice on not dating someone who doesn’t have massive character defects in order. Or, as you stated, if you’re that person, put in the work now. I tell twenty-somethings often to become the type of person they’d want to marry now, so that they’re not working on it later.
- My wife and I do premarital counseling for our church, so you end up talking about everything from finances to sex. One thing we recommend over and over to couples is having a “SexPectations” talk a few weeks prior to getting married as it will only enhance their marriage and sex life together.
Thanks for writing this! Loved it!